Okay, so you want some first date tips. Well, lets kick into it. WHAT TO DO ON A FIRST DATE Imagine being an attractive girl who has lived in the same city all her life. Shes been on 20 first dates and has been taken to all the standard date locations: - Restaurant. - Movies. - Caf. - Park. - Amusement park. - Entertainment facility. - Walk along the beach. Next, imagine you are that girl going on those dates with guys who: a) Are trying to impress you to gain your approval. b) Forget to have fun because they are too concerned with making things run smoothly. c) Are nervous. d) Ask standard first date questions. e) Treat the date like its the step before a relationship or marriage! Then one day you meet a guy who takes you to the same restaurant that the 10 other guys have taken you to. Yet he: 1. Makes you feel relaxed. 2. Is cool. 3. Is confident. 4. Isnt afraid to engage in cheeky humour. 5. Makes the date run smoothly. 6. Has a relaxed and fun time with you. 7. Is a great conversationalist and knows how to vibe with you. Does it matter that he took you to the same restaurant? No. Why? Because as Ben always says, The most important thing is how you make a woman feel. Women will feel great things when you learn how to do the 7 things mentioned above, all of which you can learn about in my e-book (of course!). Tyson, I recommend you revisit the sections on personality and really stop to have a think about each section. Now, in the little story above Ive mentioned taking a woman out to dinner, so I want to point something out: Although its perfectly fine to do so, Im not specifically recommending that you HAVE TO dine at restaurants on first dates. You do whatever you want. If you feel like going for a walk by the beach do it. If you feel like grabbing a pizza and heading to a nice lookout do it. If you feel like grabbing a coffee with her do it. But, most of all: Do whatever YOU feel like doing. Be a man and take the lead. Its your choice. All the best! Dan |