Avoid Being a Speaker.

A "speaker" creates a certain image and expectation. People have preconceived ideas. They have certain expectations.

Being a "speaker" also creates pressure. Our minds catalog the speakers we've heard in the past and we compare ourselves. We begin to feel inadequate.

Instead, think of yourself as a resource, or teacher, or friend. You're simply sharing information with a particular purpose. Are you wanting to motivate? Captivate? Infuriate? Activate? Pontificate?

Once you know what you want the outcome of the speech or presentation to be, work to communicate it conversationally.

Speaking is something you've done ALL your life. The only reason your conversation is inhibited in front of a crowd is because of ego. You don't have to be a speaker, just be you. Let go of that ego.

The challenge is that most speakers are...

Desperately Seeking Acceptance.

"I hope they like me." "I hope I do a good job." "I hope I get good reviews." "I hope..."

What do each of those sentences begin with?

Exactly.

That's the problem with the average speaker (and some great professional speakers as well).

We have got to get "I" out of the way. Until we do that we will NEVER give the audience full value.

As speakers and presenters we have to do what is BEST for the audience. If you are in sales you have to do what is BEST for the client.

If you're worried about the feedback cards or what people think, then form your own speakers club and pat each other on the back. Share warm fuzzies about how wonderful you all are.

If you want to be great, give the audience what they need (and sometimes what they deserve.)

Warm Regards, Paul Evans